Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Chapter Two: "Self-Realization and Psychological Disturbances"

In the fourth paragraph of this chapter, I noticed something that just passed me by in previous readings of it. Assagioli is discussing the swing between an excessive focus on psychopathology and focus on wholeness. "Some representatives of the new current show a leaning towards reversion to the former conception of man as an already unified personality, which, unfortunately, is far from being the case. The drive towards integration has been rightly described and emphasized as a basic and normal urge of the human personality, but this is something quite different from the illusion of an already organically and harmoniously functioning personality." I don't know if others have this experience, but among my professional acquaintances are therapists who routinely state that we already are whole and already know everything we need to know. Perhaps this is true in the same way as it is true that the oak tree is already in the acorn. But much has to happen for the oak tree to emerge and grow and flourish through many seasons and years. So it is for us. The pattern is inherent, as is the drive towards integration, but the actualization is something that requires much of each one of us.

In Assagioli's discussion of the personal self or ego, the superconscious, and the Self he makes it clear that he is talking about two different meanings for the term 'self-realization.' One meaning is something roughly equivalent to Maslow's self-actualization, and the other meaning is more difficult to grasp. Self-realization, or awareness of or through the Self is "the reaching of the summit where the personal I-awareness blends into awareness of the spiritual Self."

The discussion of stages in Self-realization takes us into territory not often discussed in many mental health circles in the United States. The area of the 'spiritual' is seldom addressed in the favored mental health approaches of cognitive-behavioral therapy or exposure therapy or the therapies that specifically address emotional states, such as emotionally-focused therapies and the therapies that are designed to moderate emotional states. Assagioli says, "We are using the word "spiritual" in its broader connotation which includes, therefore, not only the specific religious experience, but all the states of awareness, all the functions and activities which have as common denominator the possessing of values higher than the average, values such as the ethical, the esthetic, the heroic, the humanitarian and the altruistic. We include under the general heading of ''spiritual development" then all experiences connected with awareness of the contents of the superconscious, which may or may not include the experience of the Self." Because much of psychotherapy in the United States is based within a materialist medical model, the focus appears to be one of working with people who aspire to be average, rather than with those, who may be suffering equally, who are undergoing crises related to awakening and working through the process of spiritual transmutation Assagioli describes in this chapter.

The first two stages of Self-realization, the crisis leading up to spiritual awakening and the crisis caused by the spiritual awakening, deserve to be far better known and more widely discussed than they are. When a relatively high percentage of people are taking medication for depression, anxiety or both, one has to wonder how many of those so diagnosed are experiencing what Assagioli would describe as neurotic conflicts and/or inability to accept or get along with significant others, and how many are treating and forestalling a spiritual awakening. Stages three and four - reactions to spiritual awakening and phases of the process of spiritual transmutation outline some of the ups and downs of the personality as it deals with spiritual influxes (or the ebbing of them) and with the inevitable challenges of living through the changes wrought in dissolving what has seemed to be the center of the personality and regenerating that center by harmonizing all the drives, working with the energies of the superconscious and the Self (especially with the Will), and yet meeting the obligations and duties of ordinary life.

I found myself wishing that Assagioli had given us more of the background thinking for his discussion of the Self, Self-realization, and the superconscious. The "self" has a history in philosophy and religion, and I truly would love to have had an opportunity to discuss with him what was informing his particular understanding of these concepts.

2 comments:

  1. On the issue of already being whole, perfect and knowing - I think it has partly to do with levels of identification. In PS our true self, identify is that as Self, the Transpersonal Self, the Soul, which is perfect, relatively speaking. The personality on the other hand is the outpost, reflection of the Self. As Assagioli points out, the personality is far from integrated/unified for most of us. Usually, we are not even identified as a personality but with some physical, emotional or mental state. Hedi

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  2. Thoughts percolating:
    Re "...therapists who routinely state that we already are whole & already know everything we need to know.....".
    Roberto comments [para 3] "...all reactions have a tendency to go towards the other extreme..." Just as he mentions the limitations of seeing things purely through a pathological lens [para 1] seems to me, above comments are the flip side of that approach,….equally limiting.
    Paradoxically I agree - however ‘only’ as 'concept'. In my opinion [IMO] there’s MUCH more to it than that…I like your metaphor Carla, oak & acorn. Am thinking of DNA in a similar way. “Almost all cells have the same set of genes. These carry instructions for making every protein in body. But any particular cell uses only a selected set of genes….” http://oneness2012.com/dna_&_epigenetics
    So, whilst we do have internal resources - IMO the whole 'process' of self-realization & ‘potential ‘subsequent self actualization is about finding creative ways to 'access' & 'ground' that knowledge.
    We’d scarcely expect our big toe to perform the job of our ear! Even when body parts are grafted it’s a bit like asking a tween-ager to run the house. Even if they have all the information (aka a written list from parents, watched Mum & Dad do it 100’s of time etc, etc) even when they follow instructions faithfully, there’s just not that grounded awareness that comes with age, experience & awakening.
    Until we can ‘access’ our resources & ‘put them to use’ – surely we can't operate optimally?? OK we might get by, things might even be really good '&' there's always more, as yet, untapped. Isn't that the beauty of life - what unfolds in that exploration! .... seems to me more awakenings occur in that process too [@ least that’s my experience!].
    I'm also mindful of levels & appropriateness for purpose. Over here in NZ we were blessed to have a particularly energetic & passionate study group once. 1 session we grappled with the topic of BPM4, peak experiences - some seeing them as an end point, the spire on the roof…. the ‘be all & end all’ …
    Our facilitator, Robyn, pointed out that people who’re [arguably] more self actualized [like Gandhi, Dalai Lama] have great entourages of people supporting them & undertaking day-to-day roles, cooking & cleaning & so on.
    The point I took =’s always useful to look a ‘fitness for purpose’. If there’s space for awareness & for us to explore the ‘more than’, great. &, when it’s getting in the way of the day-to-day middle ground experience then it’s no longer serving us well. The meal still needs to be cooked & the floors swept!
    It's my current thinking [always open to review with benefit of more viewpoints & considerations ;-) ] …. if we come thru childhood/ later developmental stages in a 'relatively' unscathed condition - we'll be more able to weather these storms with less damage & quite a bit of success. & vice versa if there was trauma.
    What I love about chptr 2 is Roberto talking specifically about how we, as Guides, can help people on the journey. How often do guilt, shame & other Super-Ego injunctions result… for those who don't have the framework & words @ their disposal to language what's happening to them [& all to often people ‘telling’ them what’s happening to them is wrong, instead of what is, IMO, one of the most natural human processes & unfolding & opening to new awareness & realization].
    That key gift = helping 'name' & ‘language’ what's happening for people, where this experience is new. Helping them tap into a brave new world. Scary, exciting & ultimately so full of potential!! – Natasha

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